Worthy of Love is for you if...
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You seek validation from relationships
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You lose yourself in relationships or become a chameleon, blending into others
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You try to make others' happy and blame yourself if you can't
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You are afraid of setting and enforcing boundaries
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You get attached to people quickly
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You struggle to communicate your truth, needs, emotions, and saying "no"
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You feel like you repeat the same relationship, different person
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You struggle to trust yourself and others
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You give unsolicited advice or try to fix others' problems
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You choose unavailable people (alcoholics, addicts, mentally unstable, or have other issues)
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You tolerate mental or emotional abuse
I get it, I once was there too.
Hello, I'm Jessica.
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I'm a Relationship Coach + Mentor, helping you break free from codependency to cultivate healthy relationships.
I hit a serious rock bottom at 25 after falling in love for the first time with an abusive narcissist. I became addicted to him and I completely lost myself.
After 4 years, I left him, went to treatment, and learned I was codependent. I followed the advice of Melody Beattie and was convinced I was Codependent No More.
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Dating after treatment felt like a nightmare. I attracted unavailable partners I couldn't be authentic with, and settled for casual relationships when I wanted commitment.
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What I didn’t know, was that my partners were a mirror, reflecting my own unavailable-ness. I was terrified to be seen. As long as I had someone to stay distracted, I didn’t have to face the pain of the broken little child within.
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I had years of stored trauma, emotional wounds, beliefs and fears I wasn’t ready to face. I believed a man would rescue me from the evil world, heal me and we'd live happily ever after. He never came and I continued to suffer.
So I did the work. I read many books, worked 12-step programs, took digital courses, hired a trauma informed coach, and committed to healing every piece of my heart and soul and something inside shifted...
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I became a magnet for mature, available men who wanted to truly know me, who made me a priority, and wanted a committed relationship. It all shifted when I healed and began to love myself and I can teach you to do the same.
It all shifted when I healed and began to love myself
Just imagine 6 months from now...
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You know who you are and what you want in life and love
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You feel confident, comfortable and happy with who you are regardless of your relationship status
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You can easily spot unavailable partners and politely decline getting involved with them
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You set empowered boundaries and speak your truth even when it feels scary
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You are committed to your healing journey, allowing yourself compassion when any past wounds surface
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The people around you notice a brightness about you and want to be in your radiant presence
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You are able to live authentically, voicing your needs, wants and emotions
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You are able to say goodbye to toxic relationships that are not serving your Highest Good
Introducing
L♡VE
Worthy
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A 3 month private coaching program for people who are committed to healing their hearts and aligning to real love.
Investment is $1997 (payment plans available)
What is included?
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12 Coaching calls total (60 minutes each)
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​Voxer support for check-ins between sessions
Mon-Fri (give me 24 hours max to get back to you)
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Lifelong access to Worthy of Love Digital Course
What does the course entail?
Worthy of Love
Digital Course Curriculum
Phase I: Building Your Foundation
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In order to heal from your past trauma and codependency, healthy habits must be set in place so you don't fall back to old behaviors. This is the most important phase of the program.
Phase II: Becoming Your Own Healer
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This is where you will learn to heal trauma, heartache, and pain from the past. You will learn tools to become your own healer. This phase will deepen the relationship with yourself.
Phase III: Moving Forward/Integration
Now that you have broken free from your past and shifted into a healthier mindset, let's discover how you can show up as the most empowered version of yourself in current and future relationships.
Mallory
I am the most blessed woman in the world. I get to marry the best man I've ever met. Coaching by you changed the way I looked at myself, men I was interested in dating, and I have now found a fantastic fit. We have the healthiest most honest relationship I’ve ever had and I’m told by those that know us it’s a beautiful thing to witness. Can not recommend enough. 10/10.
Regina
1,000,000 % it works!! If you’re tired of running into the same issues in relationships, triggers that show up all the time and you don’t know how to handle them, negative self talk, lack of spiritual direction and self love, past hurts and trauma.....these are all issues your coaching has helped me with!! In such little time I have changed for the better! I now have tools to handle what life will throw at me. It takes work, dedication, persistence, effort and being ready to do the work and put in the time. Jessica you are a special gift to this world. You’ve helped me see the world differently and I can’t thank you enough.
Analeah
I am so full of gratitude. You are amazing and I am so blessed to have had you as my relationship coach. Thank you for helping me see and uncover areas I wouldn't have ever imagined I could resolve in my relationship with my friends, family and partner. You gave me the tools and courage to do so.
Now is the time to start your epic transformation towards real love
FAQs
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I feel so pulled to this but I’m worried about the money. What should I do?
It is very natural to have fears around money. The ultimate question is this: are you willing to invest in yourself? Do you want to end the heartache, shame, and fear in your relationships? Are you willing to do whatever it takes? If it’s not this financial investment, what else will you do?
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Why should I invest in this program? Couldn’t I learn this from a therapist or 12 step program?
I spent half of my life trying to figure out what was wrong with me, I felt broken, lonely and doomed to a life of being forever alone or settling for someone I didn’t want to be with. I did tons of personal development on myself, took courses, read books, worked the 12 steps, worked with a therapist and a lot of that helped me improve my life except when it came to romantic relationships.
It wasn’t until I discovered this one thing that completely transformed my life, trauma informed coaching. Until I addressed my underlying trauma, I was going to keep repeating the same pattern.
And this is my approach with you, trauma informed coaching. Do you really want to spend the next 1, 5 or 10 years repeating the same relationship patterns? When I invested in a trauma informed approach towards my healing, I made more progress than ever and was able to break free from codependent relationships for good.
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Do you offer payment plans?
Yes I do. You can choose to pay in full or with an extended payment plan. I am very flexible and sensitive to your financial situation. Apply now and let's discuss how we can make this happen for you.